二十一、世上最心痛的距离，不是你不懂我的悲哀，不明白我的孤寂，而是我即使痛彻心脾，却不能放声哭泣！时间决定你会在生命中遇见谁，你的心决定你想要谁出现在你的生命里，而你的行为决定最后谁能留下。The most painful distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sorrow and my loneliness, but that I can't cry even though I'm in pain. Time decides who you will meet in your life, your heart decides who you want to appear in your life, and your actions decide who will stay in the end.

用今日头条app上方的搜索框输入：不二大叔说，愿情话有主，你不在孤独，希望我能有一句话温暖你的心，愿我能陪你度过每一个春夏秋冬，就算有一别，也请不要辜负你我相遇 。”