一、心不饶人嘴上甜，嘴不饶人心地善，心善之人能直言，嘴甜之人藏迷奸，宁交一个抬杠的鬼，也不要一个嘴甜的贼！
Sweet hearts, sweet mouths, good hearts and good hearts, good hearts can speak frankly, sweet mouths hide adultery, preferring to make a raiser ghost, rather than a sweet-mouthed burglar!
二、善良和爱都是免费的，但不是廉价的，你的善良，需要带点锋芒，你的爱，需要带些理智，带眼识人，毕竟不是所有人都配拥有它们。
Kindness and love are free, but not cheap, your kindness, need to take a bit of edge, your love, need to take some reason, with eyes, after all, not everyone deserves them.
三、你可以爱错三五个人渣，但不能爱一个人渣三五次，走错路可能是运气不好，但总往一个坑里跳就是活该。
You can love three or five scum wrongly, but you can't love one scum three or five times. Maybe it's bad luck to go wrong, but it's just right to jump into a pit all the time.
四、没事就想想如何致富吧，别总在感情的世界里伤春悲秋，捏在手心的钱永远要比那抓不住的心踏实。
Think about how to get rich. Don't always feel sad in the emotional world. The money you hold in your hand is always more solid than that you can't grasp.
五、没有翻不过去的山，没有趟不过去的河，只有不想走路的脚；没有永远的胜利者，没有永远的失败者，只有不求上进的心。
There are no mountains, rivers, feet that don't want to walk; there are no winners, no losers, only the heart that doesn't strive for progress.
六、女人一定要有的五样东西：扬在脸上的自信、长在心底的善良、融进血里的骨气、两侧外泄的霸气、刻进命里的坚强！
There are five things a woman must have: self-confidence on her face, kindness in her heart, bone in her blood, tyranny on both sides, and strength in her life!
七、感情世界里最没用的四种东西：分手后的悔恨、不爱后的关怀、高高在上的自尊心和低智商的善良。
There are four most useless things in the emotional world: regret after breaking up, care after loving, high self-esteem and kindness with low IQ.
八、所有回不去的良辰美景，都是举世无双的好时光。感谢过去，珍惜现在，憧憬未来。哭给自己听，笑给别人看，这就是所谓的人生。
All the beautiful moments that can't be returned are unparalleled good times in the world. Thank the past, cherish the present and look forward to the future. Cry for yourself, laugh for others to see, this is the so-called life.
九、刻薄嘴欠和幽默是两回事，口无遮拦和坦率是两回事，没有教养和随性是两回事，轻重不分和耿直是两回事。
Being sarcastic and humorous are two different things. Being open-minded and Frank are two different things. Being uncultured and casual are two different things. Being honest and upright are two different things.
十、有些事，就是不值得被原谅，跟大不大度没有关系；各有各的底线，做错了，就应该考虑为自己的错误付出代价。
Some things are not worthy of forgiveness, and have nothing to do with the degree; each has its own bottom line, and if you make a mistake, you should consider paying for your own mistake.
十一、他若喜欢你，你脾气再大都叫个性。他若不喜欢你，就算你温顺的像只猫，他都嫌你掉毛。
If he likes you, most of your temper is called personality. If he doesn't like you, even if you are gentle like a cat, he will dislike your hair loss.
十二、高潮时享受成就，低潮时享受人生，有心思时干有意义的活，没心情时做有意思的事。
Enjoy achievement at high tide, life at low tide, meaningful work when you are in the mood, and interesting things when you are not in the mood.
